distaff
Pronunciation: /ˈdɪstɑːf/
noun

Phrases
-
the distaff side
- the female side of a family: the family title could be passed down through the distaff sideThe opposite of the spear side.

Origin:
Old English distæf: the first element is apparently related to Middle Low German dise, disene 'distaff, bunch of flax'; the second is staff1. distaff (sense 2) arose because spinning was traditionally done by women